„giving and taking“ is the name of the game now. start.ups have bright ideas but no money, investors have, well, money and the need to earn profits. so both parties have a mutual interest to find to each other. therefore mutual respect should be the basis of the interaction on both sides.
this is the 4th part of the "six steps to venture capital" guide, where the systematic approach to acquire venture capital for a start.ups is discussed.
after the motivation got sorted out in step 1, the a-b list of potential investors in part 2 (part 1, part 2) got filled and the battleground got prepared in step 3 now it is time to approach the potential investors.
first thing to do is to contact three venture capitalists from the b-list (as laid out in part 3).
the best way to contact is through references (see here on general discussion of references in the context of venture capital). if that is not possible, it is worth to investigate on how to get in touch best with the respective firms. there has been an interesting discussion on that topic also at web2.0 berlin 2009, see here.

having found out the way to contact, send the executive summary and announce to get in touch personally one week after.
follow up after one week as said. use whatever way fits best, e.g. by using an open approach like, „any questions, additional information wanted“. key is to find out if they interested or not. it is not worth to run after a vc for 2 month. reading the executive summary takes 10 minutes.
2nd thing to find out is how to set up the next step. be it a personal meeting or a online presentation/telephone conference. know how the time frame for meeting will be and who will attend.
when succeeding to get the 1st meeting/online presentation prepare the team: ceo and cfo are sufficient. prepare the pitch and stick to the time frame. decide who answers on which questions beforehand.
also the start.up has to have the questions to the investors prepared. a start.up which has no questions to the vc did not prepare.
at the end it is all about fixing the next steps. when - if not directly - to get an answer for go/no-go and about discussing the timeline for a follow up meeting.

handling the 2nd round meeting comes up at the second part of "approaching venture capitalists", part 4.2 of the series six steps to venture capital.